Monday, May 10, 2010

MEMORIES...Light The Corners Of My Mind

I grew up in Orange County, CA in the 1960's and 70's. What a great place to grow up - amusement parks, the beach, restaurants, great weather!



When it came to grocery shopping we had our choice of Alpha Beta, Lucky, Hughes, The Boys Market ALONG with Ralphs, Stater Bros and Vons. You could get your prescriptions filled AND and an ice cream cone at Thrifty Drug Stores. Need clothes, shoes, housewares, fabric or eye glasses? Choose from White Front, Zodys and TG&Y. And don't forget GEMCO - a membership store that had housewares, clothes, groceries, tools...you name it, GEMCO had it. Hardware stores? LinBrook and Builders Emporium come to mind. Need to grab something quick? Then you probably stopped at the Tic Toc. If you wanted to purchase a large appliance or television, then Sears and Roebuck was the place to go! Shoes? Thom McAn! And to find quality goods and service, you shopped of course at The May Company and maybe had lunch in their Tea Room. Those days also marked the opening of the FIRST Pic N Save (now known as Big Lots.)


Yep those were the days. Pee Chee folders that we 'decorated' and 'doodled' on; giant clown heads at Jack in the Box that we YELLED our fast food order at; metal lunch boxes with a glass thermos. FREE Admission into Knott's Berry Farm - you could ride the Merry Go Round, feed the Sea Lions, see a melodrama at the Bird Cage Theater and be amazed by how much candy there was at the Candy Parlor! There was an admission fee to get into Disneyland BUT it didn't include the rides. Remember the ticket books?


Strips with cheese at the beach, Bell Burgers at Taco Bell, ice cream and milk shakes at Fosters Freeze. I even remember my first McDonald's Hamburger. House of Pies was around then, as was the Hollywood Wax Museum.
Everyone went to school with their neighborhood friends, homework and housework were both completed by dinner time (5pm) and we went outside to play after dinner.



There were dairies and strawberry fields and orange groves. There was smog and leaded gasoline. No central air or heat in most homes and we only had one bathroom for our family of four. No dishwashers or microwaves or home security systems. Helmets were not required to ride a bike, and seat belts and car seats were not required when riding in cars. You were free to smoke just about anywhere and everywhere (including elementary school offices, restaurants, bank lobbies etc.) and even while pregnant! There were no computers, video games, cell phones, Ipods, rechargeable batteries, pads with wings, wonder bras, lap band surgery or Starbucks.
Things have really changed. Some for the better, some not so much. But I am happy to have the memories...

Sunday, May 2, 2010

The Trams Have Doors?

Yesterday I spent the 18th anniversary of my 35th birthday (do the math yourself) at the Happiest Place on Earth, Disneyland.
After parking the car we made our way to the loading area for the trams to be transported to the entrance to the parks.
And that is when I saw them and had an epiphany...the trams have been retrofitted with DOORS. Doors.
I have been riding the Disneyland trams for the majority of my life. I have never fallen out, never dropped a bag. I have always seated my children in the middle of the bench seat and kept my feet and hands inside the car at all times. I have removed my children from their strollers before boarding and I have NEVER sat on my husbands lap because lap sitting is only for small children.

Our society has grown increasingly undisciplined. This lack of respect for rules, laws and safety puts EVERYONE at an increased risk for harm.
Evidence of our society's lack of discipline can be observed in many ways - parents transporting their babies in strollers on escalators, grandmothers 'driving' ECV's (Electric Convenience Vehicles) with their grandchildren on their laps, using a cell phone while driving.
It is simple really. Follow the rules. They are there to keep you and others safe. Follow the rules because I don't want to be a victim of your lack of discipline.
The trams have doors. I feel so much safer now.

My Birthday

BEAUTIFUL Birthday at the Happiest Place on Earth with my favorite peeps....my hubs and kiddles!!!

In front of the FAMILY HOME...

On my FAVORITE Ride...Indiana!!!!

MOJITO TIME!!!

Monday, April 26, 2010

HAPPY 21st BIRTHDAY DYLAN MARK



APRIL 27, 1989
Dylan Mark Wallace
8.8 pounds, 22 inches
Big Brown Eyes, LONG Eyelashes, GREAT LUNGS!




Happy 21st Birthday Baby Boy!

Cherish the thought of always having you here by my side;
Cherish the joy, you keep bringing it into my life;
Cherish the strength, you got the power to make me feel good;
Oh baby I'll perish the thought, of ever leaving-I never would!



I love you Dylan...smoochies, toad xoxo

Friday, April 23, 2010

April 24th, Brown Eyed Girl Day!


6 years ago tomorrow, April 24, 2004, Zuzu's Petals, my brown eyed girl, became a member of my family.
Happy "Welcome to the Family Day" Zuzu! I love you so much!
Enjoy some photos of my beautiful brown eyed girl!







Saturday, April 17, 2010

SPARKS FLY

Recently a 'friend' on facebook sent me a message stating we should no longer communicate because our views are too "divergent" and the causes I support make her... "uncomfortable."

She should be uncomfortable. Suicide, bullycide, discrimination, inequality, civil rights....these are causes and issues that SHOULD make EVERYONE uncomfortable! Unfriending people and burying your head in the sand does NOT make these issues go away. And divergent? It is by listening to others and their 'divergent' views that we learn and grow. When we look at things from another persons perspective, with an open mind, we may find ourselves becoming enlightened. We may also find our own beliefs and convictions strengthened.

She concluded her message to me with "and are you involved with a church family?" Thank you for asking! I am involved with a wonderful church family - the GLOBAL church family. I love, serve and pray for this family everyday.

This is not the first person to unfriend me on this social networking site, nor do I believe she will be the last. It is interesting to me that in every case, every unfriending, has been at the hands of a person of faith. And I can't help but feel badly for them. For their sad, dark, small, fearful world.

This situation and each one before it and those yet to come have strengthened my convictions that I am indeed doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing. Loving, serving and praying for people. Lighting fires under people. Causing them to think. Sparking change in their world.

Let The Sparks Fly!!!

Day of Silence

Yesterday, April 16, 2010, was the National Day of Silence. Young people across the country participated in this GLSEN sponsored event to raise awareness of the forced silence of the LGBT community by ANTI-LGBT bullying, harassment, name-calling etc. My daughter participated at her high school and endured the ignorance of others. I participated in my own way by NOT posting or communicating on Facebook or Twitter for 24 hours. Our hope is that the silence creates awareness. What will you do to end the silence?